Teaching your kids to grow up wrong

vAndrea Gail Poon was helping her parents tend to their hawker store in a coffee shop when a little girl who wasn’t a patron took utensils from the stall without asking. Andrea’s mother told the little girl she couldn’t have the utensils and the little girl returned back to her table in tears.

At first it would seem like a case of “eh don’t so stingy la” but we all know better that we should just take utensils from the store we ordered from. After all it makes it easier for the cleaner to clear and return the utensils to the appropriate store.

However the issue took a turn for the worst when the father of the girl told her “Nevermind, I’ll make trouble for them and tell NEA we found cockroaches in their stall”. Yes a grown man and father of two saw it fit to lie, accuse and slander over utensils.

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Dear family, friends and teachers. How many of you feel that our society is getting colder and colder? I used to think that it wasn’t until today. Today when I was helping my parents to tend their business around 1930 hrs, this guy’s daughter took my parent’s stall utensils without seeking for permission and of course without purchases any food from us. Naturally my mother told the girl to return the utensils after returning, the girl cried and guess what did the guy said to her? “It’s alright, I will cause trouble for this stall and tell NEA there were cockroaches in the stall” I can’t believe this! A father of 2 children actually taught his daughter that this is the right thing to do. Of course my father wasn’t happy and he yelled at him as to us we did not even have roaches in our stall. He then took a picture of my parent’s stall then said he will definitely report us. My father instructed me to do the same thing and thus the pictures. Another thing was that, he said it was fine if we report him as he isn’t doing business like us. To me so what if he actually had more education compared to my parents? Does he thinks that my parent’s can’t understand english? and lastly just because my parents are fighting under the heat to support a family whereas he is working in a air-condition environment? Is he looking down on hawker workers? I would wish to express my thoughts to this “xia suay” man.
My answer: I know you are more educated but who are you to insult people who work in hawker center? They earn money decently. I am speaking up on behalf of all hawker workers and not only my parents. Just because you might earn more money then them just because you are more educated, you still have no rights to insult them. Where have your education gone to? You think you are the only one who can speak english is it? and if you think that you are rich why get your food at hawker center? Why don’t you want to dine in in some restaurant? You know what? Because people like you, this society is getting way colder and I am really ashamed for you because of the way you teach your child. I am really disgusted.
My dear family, teachers and friends do share about this as I really hate it when people look down on hawker workers and people who is as “xia suay” as him.

Apparently these aren’t the only things he’s done before. And he isn’t that much of an upholding citizen or a role model to his children.

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